What's The Big Idea: You’re a Liar. How to Tell the Truth and Redesign Your Life.
“I am not telling a person to lose their commitment to kindness. Learning how to tell the truth without hurting someone or messing with them is really an art of communication…“
Today’s guest: Lauren Zander
Her big idea: How to Tell the Truth and Redesign Your Life.
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Inner.U leverages the Handel Method that my mentor Lauren Zander created, used with me (changed my life) and now I use it with my own clients. The course starts by helping you to identify your big, audacious goals in 12 important areas of life (Money, Love, Community, Health, Purpose etc.). Then, it helps you to identify all of the blockers (inner dialogue, traits, family shit and relationships) that are getting in your way. Finally, they provide you with proprietary tools that you will use to turn these blockers into assets that help you to live the live you REALLY want to live. My weekly wrap up call will hold you accountable for getting shit done and the 30 people we're inviting into our crew will be awesome.
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LAUREN HANDEL ZANDER is a life coach, university lecturer, public speaker, and the Co-Founder and Chairwoman of Handel Group®, an international corporate consulting and private coaching company based in New York City. Lauren is also the author of Maybe It’s You: Cut the Crap, Face Your Fears, Love Your Life (Published by Hachette Book Group, April 2017), a no-nonsense, practical manual that helps readers figure out not just what they want out of life, but how to actually get there. She has spent over 20 years coaching thousands of private clients: entrepreneurs, couples, families, professors, politicians, Emmy, Peabody and Academy Award-winning artists, Grammy-winning musicians and Fortune 500 CEOs. Her corporate clients have included executives from Sony BMG, The New York Times, News Corp, J. Walter Thompson Agency, Citibank, Dropbox, LinkedIn, Uniworld, The Gap Inc., BASF, NYU Langone Medical Center, and Vogue. She has fixed corporate business relationships, mediated contract negotiations, reconciled marriages, and helped resolve complex family issues.
In the early 2000s, Lauren created a groundbreaking methodology, The Handel Method®, which is supported by top educators and psychologists, and has been taught in over 35 major universities and institutes of learning across the country.
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Key insights Shared:
Why we as human beings really don’t need to lie
What is the definition of a lie?
The 7 different types of lies (small vs. BIG)
The reasoning in your head that validates the lie
Confidence is a verb and not a noun
Why telling the truth is the greatest act of love
Distinguishing between being honest and telling the truth vs. too much information
If I can’t tell you “I think…(something)”, it must be true
Who are you fully honest with?
The value of having your “core people” that you are completely honest with
The chicken & the brat as voices in your head
The concept of being the warrior gatekeeper of your mind
The idea of the ‘higher-self’
Morality vs. truth-telling
Whether you like it or not, you have an audience in your head!
The areas of life where people are most often lying
The importance of dreams in helping people step into truth-telling and integrity